It is common saying that nobody can understand a woman. However, experts reveal a few tips that may help you understand women and to know some sex secrets women wish their partner knew.

The Best Aphrodisiac is a Great Enticing Talk

Most of the women feel that a good talk is a great turn-on. Women offers great importance for talking and feeling loved.

A good conversation during dinner or a walk or while the couple is enjoying some moments of relaxation can prove to be an impressive aphrodisiac.

You may tell her how much you love her and it will act as a reassurance for your woman that you are mentally present with her during those cherished moments.

Women often feel anxious about their looks

A woman in a close relationship for long sometimes may feel that her partner is drifting away or he is finding them less alluring and attractive.

This anxiety or doubt often prompts some women to undress only if there is enough darkness. If you are a caring man, you need to sense her anxiety.

While you don’t need to lie to her as that will simply make her feel embarrassed, it is also necessary that you should not break her heart by bluntly claiming that she is not attractive anymore.

The better is to take the middle path and to praise and appreciate what you actually find attractive in her. Truthfulness increases the essence of care.

A woman Often Consider sex as a part of rest of her life

While men can keep their worries apart from their sexual life, it is often difficult for women.

A man may feel that stressful part of their life can be forgotten for a while and they can easily separate their anxieties from their sexual activities.

Women often find it difficult and they surely need a good environment and comfortable feeling during the day so that they may enjoy satisfying sex.

The way her lover treats her out of the bed greatly influence the manner in which she responses in bed.

Harsh language, rude tones, criticism, hurtful words or inattentiveness can make her feel low and it will make her difficult to get involved, passionate and enthusiastic during sex.

An orgasm is not a necessity

Men often feel that they can be good lover only if they can bring their woman to climactic sexual culmination with a bombastic orgasm.

The truth is, having a climactic orgasm is certainly great for a woman, however; she doesn’t look for it always. Many women complain that their partners pressurize them for having an orgasm.

Sometimes, women really don’t seek for an orgasm, rather they prefer to engage in just lustful foreplay.

Sex may not be a serious act always

 Men need to learn playfulness as it is one of the most important quality that is appreciated by women.

Many men often tend to behave very serious about sex.

Not only they forget to laugh, to act romantically mischievous and to have fun, they also get enraged if their female partner tries to lighten those intimate moments with sudden laughs, giggles and poking.

Men can use playfulness and light-heartedness to change those intimate yet tense moments into enjoyable and relaxing period. Playfulness also reduces the stress of performing better.

Women relish non-sexual tenderness and touch

Instead of looking for sex, women often love romance, hand-holding, kissing and cuddling.

However, most women complain that their men do not enjoy this at all and the only time when they do this is during the foreplays.

A woman should take initiatives in making her man realize the importance and joy of touching. Offer him a relaxing massage and stroke his hair and face tenderly.

Your acts will make him experience this kind of cherishment of non-sexual touching. Conversation is important, tell your man what you like.

Be warm towards her after sex
 
While a man may feel exhausted after having sex, a woman’s need of warmth and tender moments lasts beyond the actual intercourse.

Some women complain that their men either gets away to the bathroom or false asleep immediately after ejaculation.

Biologically, during the sexual intercourse, the man’s endorphin level reaches a height and almost immediately after ejaculation, he goes through an unmanageable phase during which he loses his erection while all his bodily system goes down.

Women on the other hand experience this phase in a gradual manner.

However, if a woman is disturbed about her man falling asleep immediately, she should tell him about it without making him feel wrong.

Other way is to let him relax and sleep in your arms for a short while and then to wake him up gently afterwards.

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Dating is a common pattern however, if you are in hope of having first time hot sex at your next date, you will need to ask yourself whether you are really ready to make the move and go all the way with you partner into the sexual haven?

Most of the girls feel excitement about their first encounters with their dream man and it is obvious that they feel quite nervous about it.

It is ok to be nervous and it is obvious if a hot girl feel slightly scared about the prospects of first time sex.

The following tips may help you to ease the tension and anxiety so that you may enjoy your first sexual encounter in an unforgettable manner.

First-time Sex: Things to Keep in Mind

Precaution
Precaution is the most important thing not only for the first time sex, but it is certainly the most important thing that should be taken every time you have sex.

A girl can become pregnant even at her first time sexual experience.

Teen pregnancy is certainly not desirable.

In fact, proper precautions will certainly help you to remain away from the issues related with teen pregnancy.

Since teen pregnancy is rising as a burning problem for United States, it is advisable to remain alert and apply proper precautions every time you plan for having sex.

Other than teen pregnancy, another side-effect of sex can be unwanted sexually transmitted diseases (STD) including AIDS.

You can avoid teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases by employing proper precautions.

Precautions may include contraceptive pills or condoms.

While contraceptive pills will safeguard against issues of teen pregnancy, it is better to opt for condom as a good condom will not only resist chances of teen pregnancy, it will also provide safety against sexually transmitted diseases.

Try to know more about contraceptive pills and condoms and learn how to use a contraceptive pill or a condom.

While none of these precautions ascertain fool safety, they will certainly provide fair protection.

Be responsible while having sex and if it is your first time sex, you need to be cautious.

Get some knowledge
While your family may consider sex as a taboo word and they may not even like to let you enquire about contraceptive pills or condoms, it is better to talk to your family or friends.

If it is possible, meet some expert and talk to her before you march forward to make first steps in your sexual haven.

Enquiring about sex is not stupid and it is certainly not taboo.

In fact, asking questions is simply sensible.

However, even if some hot girls feel too embarrassed to talk about it, they may use internet facility.

Search on internet, read other people’s experiences and learn from them.

Try to gather more information about everything about how to do it, precautions, teen pregnancy, STDs, AIDS and in fact, you may also learn ways to make your first sexual encounter a really excellent experience.

Don’t confuse sex with love
Many people mistake their emotions they feel during sex for love.

And it is very common for if it is their first time.

Just because you are having sex with a person doesn’t mean that you should be in love with that person.

If you already love that person, then it is a great thing.

However, you need to be sure about what you’re looking before having sex.

Clean up
It is good to be prepared and since it is your first time, you may enjoy your makeup for the first encounter.

Shave or wax your hands and legs, trim your pubic hairs, and take a long, relaxing hot bath.

This will help you to feel clean, relaxed and somewhat prepared to have sex.

It is necessary to clean your private parts as that will make sure that you may not feel sticky and sweaty.

Better idea is to have a Brazilian wax as that will certainly be appreciated by your partner.

Relax
The very first motive to decide for having sex is fun and enjoyment.

However, sex can be scary.

It is necessary to get rid of your nervousness before you may plunge in the bed with your partner.

Take enough time to get relaxed.

You may decide to fool around while massaging each other as that will help you to ease tension.

Sex can be a big step for many girls.

It is necessary to be certain about your priorities.

If you are ready for your first time sex, it will prove enjoyable, if you are not ready enough, it would be better to say no, whatever your reasons are.

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Transgender are not uncommon in our societies throughout the world. However, often they fail to attain a respectable and much deserved comfortable life in the world of the two predominant sexes of the society. Transgender people are present in every country including US, Russia, Mexico, Britain, India, China etc.

Yet, societies often discard them as unwanted. In some countries, transgender are allowed to be a part of the society, however, they find it difficult to mix up within the society freely and often they suffer humiliation, discrimination and poverty.

The major issue that a transgender faces is the difficulty in expressing their gender and the related issues. However, in some countries, like India, transgender are provided a special societal position, they often live in groups and there are some successful transgender in professional and political mainstreams of India. Yet, except a few successful transgender, the majority of people belonging to this third sex suffer discrimination, humiliation and hatred.

How to Deal with a Transgender?

A man or woman may find it difficult and confusing to mingle with a transgender. The basic problem that you will face is the uncertainty about how to act in the presence of a transgender without doing anything that may hurt their feeling or emotions or may cause them to feel humiliated. In general, people do not want to hurt them, yet, our general confusion, awkwardness and uncertainty becomes a reason for their humiliation.

The Issue of the Gender of a Transgender

Officially, only male and female are considered as the two present sexes. Hence, a transgender find it difficult to try to seek proper education, job or official help. This is because most of the official papers demand gender identity while transgender is not an officially recognized gender while the only two gender identities mentioned in official papers are male or female. In such a situation, a transgender find if forced on them to lie about their gender identity and to present themselves either as a male or a female.

It would be better if government organizations and in fact private corporate firms also try to solve out this issue by either providing valid identification for the third gender as transgender, or by making it optional to declare the sex identity of a person.

This issue is pretty similar to the issue of allowing free choice of either to mention someone’s sexual behaviour or not to mention it. Just like a bisexual or homosexual person finds it difficult to announce his or her personal sexual orientation, a transgender also may find it humiliating to announce about their gender.

If you come in contact with a transgender, you should try not to show your confusion about how to react in such a situation. Use appropriate language while conversing with a transgender and try not to make an issue of “by what gender should they be recognized?”

Transgender people are cool and friendly and often they love to converse with males and females without any hesitation while trying to answer all possible queries or curiosities a person may feel about them. However, while asking questions and trying to know more about them, you need to be respectful and patient while giving them enough space and proper time to answer your queries appropriately.

Just like a male or female, transgender are human beings and they deserves every individual right along with proper respect and humanly love.

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