Understanding Women: What They Really Want

It is common saying that nobody can understand a woman. However, experts reveal a few tips that may help you understand women and to know some sex secrets women wish their partner knew.

The Best Aphrodisiac is a Great Enticing Talk

Most of the women feel that a good talk is a great turn-on. Women offers great importance for talking and feeling loved.

A good conversation during dinner or a walk or while the couple is enjoying some moments of relaxation can prove to be an impressive aphrodisiac.

You may tell her how much you love her and it will act as a reassurance for your woman that you are mentally present with her during those cherished moments.

Women often feel anxious about their looks

A woman in a close relationship for long sometimes may feel that her partner is drifting away or he is finding them less alluring and attractive.

This anxiety or doubt often prompts some women to undress only if there is enough darkness. If you are a caring man, you need to sense her anxiety.

While you don’t need to lie to her as that will simply make her feel embarrassed, it is also necessary that you should not break her heart by bluntly claiming that she is not attractive anymore.

The better is to take the middle path and to praise and appreciate what you actually find attractive in her. Truthfulness increases the essence of care.

A woman Often Consider sex as a part of rest of her life

While men can keep their worries apart from their sexual life, it is often difficult for women.

A man may feel that stressful part of their life can be forgotten for a while and they can easily separate their anxieties from their sexual activities.

Women often find it difficult and they surely need a good environment and comfortable feeling during the day so that they may enjoy satisfying sex.

The way her lover treats her out of the bed greatly influence the manner in which she responses in bed.

Harsh language, rude tones, criticism, hurtful words or inattentiveness can make her feel low and it will make her difficult to get involved, passionate and enthusiastic during sex.

An orgasm is not a necessity

Men often feel that they can be good lover only if they can bring their woman to climactic sexual culmination with a bombastic orgasm.

The truth is, having a climactic orgasm is certainly great for a woman, however; she doesn’t look for it always. Many women complain that their partners pressurize them for having an orgasm.

Sometimes, women really don’t seek for an orgasm, rather they prefer to engage in just lustful foreplay.

Sex may not be a serious act always

 Men need to learn playfulness as it is one of the most important quality that is appreciated by women.

Many men often tend to behave very serious about sex.

Not only they forget to laugh, to act romantically mischievous and to have fun, they also get enraged if their female partner tries to lighten those intimate moments with sudden laughs, giggles and poking.

Men can use playfulness and light-heartedness to change those intimate yet tense moments into enjoyable and relaxing period. Playfulness also reduces the stress of performing better.

Women relish non-sexual tenderness and touch

Instead of looking for sex, women often love romance, hand-holding, kissing and cuddling.

However, most women complain that their men do not enjoy this at all and the only time when they do this is during the foreplays.

A woman should take initiatives in making her man realize the importance and joy of touching. Offer him a relaxing massage and stroke his hair and face tenderly.

Your acts will make him experience this kind of cherishment of non-sexual touching. Conversation is important, tell your man what you like.

Be warm towards her after sex
 
While a man may feel exhausted after having sex, a woman’s need of warmth and tender moments lasts beyond the actual intercourse.

Some women complain that their men either gets away to the bathroom or false asleep immediately after ejaculation.

Biologically, during the sexual intercourse, the man’s endorphin level reaches a height and almost immediately after ejaculation, he goes through an unmanageable phase during which he loses his erection while all his bodily system goes down.

Women on the other hand experience this phase in a gradual manner.

However, if a woman is disturbed about her man falling asleep immediately, she should tell him about it without making him feel wrong.

Other way is to let him relax and sleep in your arms for a short while and then to wake him up gently afterwards.